Childhood trauma: Folks who are exposed in very high doses, have triple the lifetime risk of heart disease and lung cancer, and a 20-year difference in life expectancy.
Children are especially sensitive to this repeated stress activation of the fight or flight response, and it goes from being adaptive, or life-saving, to maladaptive, or health-damaging.
High doses of adversity not only affect brain structure and function, they affect the developing immune system, developing hormonal systems, and even the way our DNA is read and transcribed.
In the words of Dr. Robert Block, the former President of the American Academy of Pediatrics, “Adverse childhood experiences are the single greatest unaddressed public health threat facing our nation today.”
The major life goal for 80% of the population was to get rich
50% of young adults said their major life goal was to become famous
For 75 years the lives of 724 men tracked about their work and home lives
The clearest message from this study on happiness was that good relationships keeps us happier and healthier
The first big lesson about relationships is that social connections are really good for us
More than one in five Americans will report that they are lonely
The second big lesson about relationships it’s the quality of your close relationship that matters
A predictor that can best determine that a 50-year-old will be healthy and happy at 80 years of age are people who were most satisfied in their relationships at age 50
The third biggest lesson about relationships and health is that relationships don’t just protect our bodies, they protect our brains
The happiest people in retirement were the people who had actively worked to replace workmates with new playmates
Yes the Hypno mobile (My Hypnotherapy Sydney Mobile Van) is still in action providing services to clients that are unable to travel or for convenience among many factors seeking mobile van hypnotherapy services
For decades we have been trying to outsmart the placebo effect
The Institute of Noetic Science’s database comprises 3,500 case studies of patients who have gotten better from seemingly incurable illnesses
Doctors need to be forces of healing
The title of her book is called Mind over medicine: scientific proof you can heal yourself
One of the most important preventative measures you can take is curing your own loneliness
The body interprets a negative thought with your brain triggering this as a threat
Some of the things the parasympathetic system in the body produces include hormones like oxytocin, dopamine, nitric oxide and endorphins
We have up to 50 stress responses in a day
Two factors that combine to trigger the relaxation response includes a combination of 1.minds positive belief and 2.nurturing care of a health care provider
Some activities that turn on the relaxation response includes meditation, expressing yourself creatively, getting a massage, doing yoga, tai chi, going out with friends etc
The purpose of greater levels of emotional agility is for true resilience and thriving
What Susan says about the rigidity of the conventional view of emotions is the conventional view of emotions as good or bad, positive or negative, is rigid and rigidity in the face of complexity is toxic
What the World Health Organization tells us about depression is that depression is now the single leading cause of disability globally, outstripping cancer, and outstripping heart disease
The proportion of people in Susan’s survey who judged themselves for having “so-called bad emotions” was a third (1/3) of 70,000 people
‘Being positive’ has become “a new form of moral correctness”
When Susan mentioned “Dead People’s Goals” she meant that only dead people never get unwanted or inconvenienced by their feelings, only dead people never get stressed, never get broken hearts, never experience the disappointments that come with failure
How Susan defines discomfort is the price of admission to a meaningful life
Susan suggests that instead of saying “I am sad”, to instead say I’m noticing that i’m feeling sad
The instruction Judson received when he first learned to meditate was to simply pay attention to his breath and when his mind wandered to bring it back
The reward-based learning process called as positive and negative reinforcement
Three words that typify habit forming behaviour are trigger, behavior, rewards
Mindfulness training focuses on to breaking a bad habit through focusing on being curious on what is happening in our momentary experience
The Prefrontal Cortex is that part of the brain helps us to use cognition to control behaviour
The efficiency in mindfulness training in helping people to quit smoking is twice as good as gold standard therapy at helping people to quit smoking
When we become curious the posterior cingulate cortex brain region also quiets down
The data shows that chasing happiness can make people unhappy
A lack of having meaning in life according to research is a predictor of despair
Psychologists define happiness as a state of comfort and ease, feeling good in the moment
Studies show that people who have meaning in their lives are more resilient, they do better at school and at work, and they live longer
The four pillars of a meaningful life: 1. Belonging: comes from being in relationships where you’re valued for who you are intrinsically and where you value others as well 2. Purpose: Is less about what you want than about what you give, the key to purpose is using your strengths to serve others 3. Transcendence: transcendence states are those rare moments when you’re lifted above the hustle and bustle of daily life, your sense of self fades away, and you feel connected to a higher reality 4. Storytelling: The story you tell yourself about yourself
Now, finding your purpose is not the same thing as finding that job that
makes you happy. Purpose is less about what you want than about what you give
Transcendence states are those rare moments when you’re lifted above the hustle and bustle of daily life, your sense of self fades away, and you feel connected to a higher reality